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Gender Images in Dieter Wellershoff's Der Liebeswunsch
Katja Fullard
University of St. Thomas
The prolific storyteller and essayist Dieter Wellershoff can look back on a considerable
number of theoretical texts and literary works he has written. Nevertheless, until
recently, the author was, as Ulrich Greiner acknowledged, "nicht in
Mode" ("not fashionable").1 For a long time, Wellershoff's literary
works were primarily considered to be manifestations of his theoretical demands
and judged accordingly. Critics often blamed him for being too theoretical, and
the public did not adore him; his commercial success was moderate.
This all changed when Wellershoff published Der Liebeswunsch in 2000. The novel
brought the recognition that he had been waiting for; it became a bestseller. Reviews were
overwhelmingly positive, even the term "Meisterstück" ("masterpiece")
was used.2 In the television program Das Literarische Quartett, Marcel
Reich-Ranicki praised the novel in the highest terms: "Ich habe selten
erlebt, dass Liebe so vergegenwärtigt wird" ("Seldom have I seen love
made present so well"). Even less euphoric critics commend Wellershoff's
exact descriptions and accurate observations and attest that he is a
"Meisterrealist" ("master of realism"), particularly versed
in matters of psychological realism (Greiner).3
Finally, Katrin Hillgruber declares that Wellershoff draws a
"meisterliches Frauenporträt" ("masterly portrait of a
woman"). Given the acclaim, it seems worthwhile to take a closer look at
the reality the author presents and to ask what makes it so appealing. The
novel emphasizes characters and their relations to each other: in particular,
relations between the sexes. Examining the gender images presented in the novel
and gender representations within the larger context of the author's work
reveals that the same distinct patterns are visible in earlier texts by the
author. In Der Liebeswunsch the
author is not saying anything he has not said before. In previous works, he
presented male characters who seek new opportunities in love but shy away from
consequences. They are torn between desire and fear, and ultimately, they
destroy the object of their desire or abandon it without regard to the
consequences. The female characters who happen to be the objects of desire
suffer. In his literary works, Wellershoff conveys a world where men heal
themselves at the expense of women.
In Der Liebeswunsch, Wellershoff
tells the story of four people whose different ideas about love and life lead
to a catastrophe. Two of the characters, Leonhard, a judge, and the married
surgeon Paul had been best friends while Leonhard was in a relationship with
Marlene, also a physician. Then, Marlene and Paul fell in love; Paul left his
wife and children to marry Marlene. Of course, Paul and Leonhard's friendship
suffered a terrible blow, but somehow the three of them have come to terms and
maintain friendly relations. The story begins where the student Anja serves as
a house sitter for Marlene and Paul and meets Leonhard. Before long, they get
married and the two couples appear to establish a balanced friendship. With the
arrival of a son, it seems that Leonhard and Anja can enjoy a happy family life
too. However, very quickly, it becomes clear that Anja and Leonhard are
incompatible; he is too reserved and too much governed by reason to satisfy
Anja's emotional and sensual needs. Anja falls in love with Paul; they begin a
passionate affair. When their affair is discovered, all of the characters'
precarious relationships crumble. Without much regret, Leonhard divorces Anja
but keeps the child, and Marlene separates from Paul. However, Anja's desire
for love remains unfulfilled since Paul leaves her immediately, and it becomes
obvious that he never had any intention to commit to her. Desperate, deserted,
and rejected, Anja takes to drink and finally throws herself from the
fourteenth floor of a building. She appears to be the victim of a hard,
unloving environment where her desire to love and be loved is regarded as no
more than a disturbance. The story is developed from the end; on the first
page, the reader learns of Anja's death; and the novel is told from the
changing perspectives of all four protagonists.
The consensus of the reviewers is that Wellershoff tells a realistic story with psychologically
well-founded characters who invite empathy. This is in accordance with Wellershoff's conviction
that literature should simulate life.4 He believes that it should
provide the space to present alternative options to live, thus inviting the
author to stage variations to real-life situations. Literature therefore
confronts the author as well as his recipient with different perspectives of reality.
At the same time, it enriches our limited experience and suggests an
examination of our view of reality. Wellershoff illustrates the confrontation
with a reality beyond his personal experience in the essay, "Ach so ist
das!" In this text, Wellershoff describes the near-death experience of a
school friend during the war. The title phrase -- "Oh, that's it!" --
characterizes the emotions as an epiphany. Death appeared as a simple fact, one
that he had always known, yet of which he had never been aware. True to this
perception of reality, the life portrayed in Wellershoff's texts is not a
universal model of existence but rather an individual experience. He himself
characterizes his topics in his essay "Die Gegenstände des
Interesses" as "ein winziges Stück aus dem Webmuster der Welt"
("a tiny sample of the world's design"). In Wellershoff's works, this
individual experience usually unfolds as a crisis. According to the author, his
goal is to show the individual and his struggle to survive in an increasingly
complex reality. This struggle often results in failure and frustration.
Increasingly complex is also what relations between men and women have become; in numerous
essays, the author has shown himself to be an astute and thorough observer of
social conditions and relations.5 He has noted social changes brought on by a
new understanding of gender roles. In his opinion, the increasing material independence of
women leads to a shift in the formerly stable institution of marriage: women do not have to
stay in an unsatisfactory relationship for economic reasons. Therefore, their expectations
of marriage change; they wish to be made happy. Likewise, men also expect more
happiness from a marriage. Repeatedly, Wellershoff points out that he sees
enormous opportunities for fulfillment in these changed conditions, but in his
opinion, the over-emphasized pursuit of happiness also harbors problems,
because partners expect too much from each other. The responsibility for
contentment cannot rest solely on a life partner.
The conflict stemming from expectations about intimate relationships is a recurrent
theme of Wellershoff's literary texts. Elisabeth Vogtmann in Der Sieger
nimmt alles expects her husband to stay with her; Klaus Jung in Die Schönheit des
Schimpansen takes his wife's support and unconditional care for granted; Harald assumes
Barbara's unwavering friendship in "Der schöne Mann"; Elsheimer in Die
Sirene anticipates the fulfillment of all of his hidden desires; and Böhring imagines
a radical new beginning in Zikadengeschrei. Der Liebeswunsch is no
exception: Leonhard expects Anja to be a model housewife and mother; Paul expects his marriage
to last; Marlene expects Paul to be faithful; all three of them expect their precarious
friendship to provide a stable social net; and, in the end, Anja expects unconditional love
from Paul. None of their expectations are met; all four of the characters are disappointed.
The intensity with which they react to their disillusionment, as well as the form
of their reaction, however, is closely connected to another of Wellershoff's
essential topics, the search for new opportunities. This persistent theme is
based on the writer's interpretation of Kierkegaard. According to the
philosopher, people need to see different possibilities. If there is a lack of
opportunity for new, different experiences, people will give up hope and fall
into despair. Despair, then, is the sickness unto death. A new chance, however,
will halt despair. Kierkegaard was a Christian philosopher; ultimately, he
recognized God as the only foundation for any new opportunity. In his eyes, a
path not based on God cannot remedy despair. Wellershoff accepts the importance
of the new opportunity for people and makes the search for new possibilities an
essential need in many of his characters. However, he does not equip his
characters with hope for a rescue in God. Instead, in his essay "Double,
Alter ego und Schatten-Ich," he identifies one of his topics as writing
stories about people who are drawn into a catastrophe which they fight and
promote at the same time, "weil in der Zerstörung ihres bisherigen Lebens
eine ruinšse Lockung liegt" ("because there is a disastrous
attraction in destroying their existing lives"; 54). Thus, these
characters hope that they will discover new opportunities by destroying their
current lives.
Frequently in Wellershoff's works, the longing for a new, different life opportunity is
tied to an erotic desire. Wellershoff's motivation for this connection between
opportunity and desire can be found in "Die Gegenstände des
Interesses," where the author notes scenes that are representative of his
opinion about love and sex. In these scenes, established relationships are
shown to provide familiarity and security, but they also are presented as
leading to boredom. Secure but boring relations are contrasted with the
irresistible fascination of a possible new opportunity in love and the
ever-potent power of desire. There is, however, a significant gender-related
difference in the pursuit of these assumed opportunities and in the subsequent
reaction to failure: male protagonists are shown to desire the new opportunity
ardently, yet they shy away when their equilibrium is at risk. Furthermore, if
they see their normal lives threatened, they abandon the new opportunity, going
so far as to sacrifice the female object of their desire in an attempt to save
themselves. Female protagonists, on the other hand, who wish to change their
lives, are not compromising and appear to be spellbound by their love. Having
to abandon their plans results in profound suffering, even death. This trend is
obvious throughout Wellershoff's fictional texts and corresponds to distinct
gender images presented in his works.
Wellershoff designs the relations between the sexes according to the needs of his male
protagonists. The needs of male characters are eloquently described and
elaborated. His female characters on the other hand are strangely
one-dimensional and easily categorized: women characters always appear in the
shape of the familiar partner, the helpless, dependent woman, the dominating
mother, the very fascinating yet unattainable lover, and the immoral woman.
Quite accurately, Sibylle Cramer describes Wellershoff's female characters as
figures that have been taken from "Wanderungen durch die männliche
Unterwelt in fertigen Kulissen" ("excursions in the male underworld
in pre-fabricated sets"; 54). The female characters are closely connected to the hidden
fears and desires of Wellershoff's male characters. Wellershoff presents male protagonists who
are weak and insecure and show a deeply rooted fear of women. In this context,
special attention should be paid to the figure of the mother, who is latent in
many of the author's texts.6 It is tempting to call to mind Karen Horney, who
addressed the fear of women in her studies and, already in the 1930s, pointed out that this
fear had to be suppressed and to be covered, resulting in a certain presentation of men and
women in a text. In Wellershoff's case, this underlying fear of women combines
with a patriarchal role expectation, leading the protagonists to a limited and
often stereotypical perception of female characters.
Der Liebeswunsch follows suit. The characters are typical Wellershoff protagonists. They
are governed by the search for new opportunities, and they appear to be tempted by the destruction
of their everyday lives. In this case, it is important that Anja's death
provides the new opportunity for Paul. Wellershoff tells Anja's story from the
changing perspectives of herself, her husband, her lover, and his wife, thus
claiming a more objective narration in the realist tradition. Still, the four
allegedly different perspectives lead to the same outcome: Anja has to die for
Paul to live. The basis for this argument lies in the structure of Paul's
desire, which is a typical trait for Wellershoff's male protagonists.
Accordingly, analysis of the individual characters supports this statement, and
consideration of the two novellas Die Sirene and Zikadengeschrei serves to
illustrate further the nature of this desire in the larger context of Wellershoff's work.
Leonhard represents a very traditional model of masculinity: he is the keeper and
provider; he is a judge, a man who knows right from wrong. Laws and regulations
govern his professional life, and traditions and rituals rule his private life.
In one's private life one has to make "eine Grundsatzentscheidung"
("fundamental decision") by marrying a woman, and the private life
afterwards is "von Regeln geleitet [wurde], die man vernünftigerweise
nicht in Frage stellt" ("guided by rules which a sensible person
should not question"; LW 81).7 For him, marriage is an institution that
consists of "Übereinstimmung der Gewohnheiten" ("harmony of
habits"; LW 127). Leonhard's idea of a marriage helps him to focus on his career
because he is a deeply insecure man: He sees himself as
[ein] plumper, unbeholfener Mann, der sich seit seiner Jugend, als er sich selbst zu sehen
begann, an seinen Defiziten vorbeigeschwindelt hatte, indem er alles andere für
wichtiger erklärte.
(an ungainly, awkward man who masked his shortcomings by declaring everything more important
ever since he started to see himself in his youth.)
(LW 199)
Marlene notes that he lives according to a plan where every detail has to fit, including a
marriage that is supposed to support his image as a family man. Anja happens to be perfect
for his plans. By seizing a young and attractive woman from Marlene's house, he is
gaining restitution for previously suffered injuries, thus reclaiming his
status as an erotically attractive man. Anja is not only a trophy; she is also
the means he uses to heal his injured pride. Anja's youth and their difference
in education and life experiences are an additional advantage for Leonhard
because she does not challenge his sense of superiority. Leonhard needs to feel
superior to feel safe. After the debacle with Marlene, he had been looking for
an "abhängige und prägbare" ("dependent and
impressionable"; LW 87) woman. The concept of a wife as a partner is foreign to
him. From the beginning, he never shows any interest in Anja's thesis or in her work. There
is no indication that Leonhard loves Anja; furthermore, he is not even very
interested in her sexually. This is shown in the descriptions of their wedding
night, where there is no sign of passion. Instead, he just seems to be glad to
have been able to perform. As becomes apparent later, Leonhard has a conflicted
sex drive: first, Anja reports that she tried to be a good lover, but he seems
to object to her advances, and he even scolds her for using "ein obszönes
Wort" ("an obscene word"; LW 97) in the bedroom. Obviously, his sexually
active wife frightens him. He experiences a feeling of desire only when she
occasionally appears in the bathroom in the morning and she does not seem to
know why she is there. At that moment, she seems helpless and not yet herself.
In this situation, he imagines picking her up and carrying her to bed to take
her. Clearly, there is an element of power and even violence in his fantasy.
However, he never follows through with it because he is afraid of appearing
"lächerlich" ("ridiculous"; LW 125). When he tries to approach
Anja sexually during their Florida vacation, she does not totally reject him. Rather she
satisfies him manually. Leonhard describes this situation as comparable to a sexual
encounter with a prostitute (LW 181), and he admits to being enormously aroused by the
thought. Evidently, Leonhard must be with a prostitute to experience sexual pleasure; he needs
Freud's split image of woman as mother and prostitute. In general, his wife
should conform to the image of the mother. However, due to her responsibility
for their son Daniel's accident, Leonhard regards Anja as a failure as a
mother. Hence, she can fulfill only the role of the prostitute. With Anja being
incapable of taking care of Daniel, Leonhard takes in her mother. Now he has
the mother figure at home, taking care of the child, and he can enjoy the
prostitute, the woman he despises. It is only natural that he feels a sense of
higher moral standing. To bolster this claim of moral superiority, he shows
Anja a crime scene, telling her, "Ich wollte dir nur einmal zeigen, was
für unterschiedliche Problemlösungen es gibt" ("I wanted to show you
other possible means to solve problems"; LW 292). Self-righteously, he not
only points out just treatment for useless spouses, but he enjoys Anja's fear, because it
gives him a sense of dominance. By telling her the story of an abused pregnant woman who
killed her husband to defend her unborn child, he highlights Anja's failure as
a mother. By referring to his role as judge, he again emphasizes his position
of power and righteousness while confirming Anja as inferior. When he learns
about Anja's infidelity, he immediately dismisses his marriage as "ein
gescheitertes Projekt" ("a failed project"; LW 266). Thus, Anja is
completely objectified. With the trusted mother at home, Leonhard can concentrate on his
career. It is no coincidence that he receives his promotion after his separation from Anja.
It is certainly no accident that the relationship between Leonhard and Anja
appears reminiscent of Fontane's Effi Briest, and that, in particular, Leonhard's
character is reminiscent of Innstetten. Like Leonhard in Der Liebeswunsch, Innstetten,
the man opposite protagonist Effi in Effi Briest, pursues marriage with the
young daughter of his former lover because he needs to project the image of the
family man to advance his career. Like Leonhard, he uses the young girl for
personal satisfaction and to achieve and keep his sense of superiority. In his
novel, Fontane describes the cold and rigid atmosphere in Innstetten's house to
explain Effi's infidelity. Fontane shows compassion for Effi's conduct, but he
does not condone it. Ultimately, he sides with Innstetten who upholds the
values, norms, and rules of society and is also rewarded with a promotion. In
the end, Effi even admits her guilt, accepts her punishment, and forgives
Innstetten for his behavior toward her because "dass er in allem recht
gehandelt" ("he was in the right in everything"; Fontane 294).
However, righteousness comes at a price. Although Effi concedes that Innstetten
had "much good in his nature," she nevertheless adds, "Denn er
hatte viel Gutes in seiner Natur und war so edel, wie jemand sein kann, der
ohne rechte Liebe ist" ("He was as noble as possible for someone
without real love"; Fontane 294)." In his reflections of his
"Literatur des Begehrens" ("literature of desire"),8
Wellershoff also examines Effi Briest. He identifies Fontane's characters as
"Menschen, die Konventionen folgen statt ihre Probleme zu
konfrontieren" ("people who follow conventions instead of confronting
their problems"; Der verstörte Eros 160). Then he continues to explain that
everything happens "ohne Leidenschaft, ohne die Kraft zu verurteilen oder zu bereuen"
("without passion, without the strength to condemn or to repent";
160). In Leonhard, Wellershoff creates a character who also has to pay the
price for righteousness and success. Having banished passion from his life, and
having denied or repressed all erotic desires, Leonhard seems devoid of life.
Leonhard's female counterpart is Marlene. She is in this position not only because she was
also betrayed by her spouse and likewise decidedly terminated her marriage, but
because, like Leonhard, she lacks passion. Marlene is one of Wellershoff's
typical female protagonists: the "Good Wife." In Wellershoff's work,
this character type is intelligent and self-sufficient, yet totally committed
to her husband. Brita Elsheimer and Ina Böhring, the respective wives of the
protagonists in Die Sirene and Zikadengeschrei, fit the same "Good
Wife" character type. They are not lovers or newlyweds anymore; they are the women
with whom the protagonists live in peaceful coexistence. There is no noticeable sexual
interest, but rather an atmosphere of harmony. The protagonists are content,
but they do not desire their wives. In her study, Sibylle Cramer appropriately
recognizes these female characters as models of socially acceptable femaleness
(Cramer 49). She points to Freud and his model of a split mother image and concludes
that the "Good Wives" represent the Freudian good mothers, the
asexual caring ones. They identify with their role as mother and conduct
themselves accordingly. It is therefore necessary that in Die Sirene, the author finds
rather convoluted means to characterize Brita as a sexual being by introducing comments from
an outsider (Cramer 49).9 An analysis of Wellershoff's other texts shows similar
techniques involving other characters like Ina Böhring.
Such a "Good Wife" is Marlene. A successful physician, certainly well
educated and intelligent, she is materially independent and, at the same time,
she is dedicated to Paul and their marriage. Even though she is not a real
mother, she at least shows the tendency to nurture. When Leonhard asks her to
look after Anja, she states:
Er hätte mich eigentlich gar nicht erst motivieren müssen. Ich bin ohnehin
geschlagen von meinem Gefühl, für schwächere Menschen in meiner Umgebung
verantwortlich zu sein.
(He actually did not have to motivate me. Anyhow, I am inflicted with a feeling of
responsibility for weaker people in my environment.)
(LW 90)
In Der Liebeswunsch, the story of Marlene and Paul's affair serves to
characterize Marlene as a sexual woman. Only in the context of this affair is
Marlene portrayed as passionate. In her determination to win Paul, she displays
traits of another typical Wellershoff character, the "Loving Woman,"
whose entire life is centered on her husband or lover. However, by being
willing to leave him if he does not commit to her, she retains the attraction
of being the new opportunity in Paul's life, unlike other characters in
Wellershoff's texts where the typical character of "Loving Woman"
drives her lover away.
In this novel, however, Marlene and Paul's affair had happened long ago, and
passion seems to have all but vanished from their marriage. Marlene turned into
the "Good Wife." At the beginning of the story, Paul and Marlene
appear to be good friends, and they both seem to be satisfied with their
relationship. Marlene describes her dream relationship in the image of two
towers that stand side by side. Characteristically, the image of the two towers
excludes touch. To take that image further, one could conclude that the ardor
of their love has turned to the solidness of brick with the approval of Marlene
(LW 322). From the initially passionate loving woman, Marlene has changed into an
asexual being, and she appears happy in this role. Confronting Paul for his infidelity,
she attempts to disparage his relationship with Anja as purely sexually motivated. After
her separation from Paul, she reacts in a fashion similar to the way Leonhard
reacts to Anja. Not only does she remove Paul completely from her life, but she
also starts to focus entirely on her career, exploring new professional
possibilities. However, she does not take refuge in her profession until her
marriage fails. Even though she is not presented as a helpless woman who
despairs when she is left behind, one has to note that she is merely reacting.
Marlene herself concedes that she had been prepared and willing to live the
life of her parents and continue on a traditional path, but now she is
determined to give up everything that reminds her of her relationship with
Paul. At the same time, she denies any inclination for erotic relationships or
marital bliss.
Paul, on the other hand, is portrayed as a man who is not prepared to give up
anything. Already the history of his affair with Marlene indicated that he was
comfortable having a wife and mistress. He had no desire to leave his first
wife as long as his mistress did not pressure him. Paul even suggested that
Marlene not mention his name or their affair when she broke up with Leonhard.
Not only does he shy away from conflicts but he also is contented with the idea
of a new opportunity in his extramarital affair rather than actually seizing
it. Despite the fact that he ultimately embraces the new opportunity, he does
not actively pursue it but rather reacts when Marlene forces him to choose
between her and his family.
In the character of Paul, Wellershoff has designed an insecure man who learned to
compensate for his feelings of inferiority through erotic conquests. While
married to Marlene, he feels inferior to her. He feels that he has been chosen,
and that he is only a guest in her house. Marlene is financially independent;
and from her position as intellectual equal, she does not look up to him. Paul
is depicted as a man who takes care of his physique and his virility; it is the
only aspect in his life where he can truly shine. For this reason, it is not
surprising that he tries to compensate for his failures in the operating room
or in his marriage with engaging in meaningless sexual adventures. In order to
restore his confidence as a capable, potent male and to conceal his anxiety, he
needs female admiration. On the other hand, he craves the safety and security
of his marriage to be anchored.10 After the confrontation with Marlene about
his affair with Anja, he has the sensation "Marlene's Schutz verloren zu
haben" ("to have lost Marlene's protection"; LW 262). For
him, marriage is supposed to offer protection. Consequently sensuality has to
be removed from his married life as it is too dangerous. Paul defines himself
too much through his virility to risk his image being destroyed by the strong
woman. In his study Männerphantasien, Klaus Theweleit examines male fear of women
and concludes that it is based on the "nicht-kastrierte beängstigende sexuelle
Potenz der Mutter oder Frau" ("non-castrated fearsome sexual potency of the
mother or the wife"; 250). Again, here is the split image of women. To a certain
extent, the split mother image that governs Leonhard's behavior also influences
Paul. Paul has accepted Marlene as superior but in order to live with her, the
wife has to be asexual in order not to endanger his fragile male identity.
However, unlike Leonhard, Paul does not desire the prostitute. He simply needs
female admiration to bolster his virility.
In this sense, Anja represents the ideal partner for Paul: she adores him and is
devoted to him. By taking another woman from his friend, Paul can turn back
time and prove to himself that he is still the same erotically potent man he
was when he met Marlene, that he can seduce a young woman as easily as Leonhard
can. Paul never considers leaving Marlene to live with Anja; she is interesting
only as long as the affair is a secret. He does not love her because she cannot
offer him the security that Marlene can, but he desires her in a very typical
way: he wants her as long as she is unattainable.
Anja is an example for another of Wellershoff's recurring female characters. I call
this type the "Imaginary Lover," the one who can be charged with all
desires, for love, for extremes. As long as she is not a real person, she can
serve as a projection field for all of Paul's desires, especially for his
desire to be completely understood. The unknown caller of Die Sirene is such an
"Imaginary Lover," as is the nameless Medusa of Zikadengeschrei.
They represent the promise of complete fulfillment, the promise to render the
protagonist complete and whole. When Elsheimer listens to the siren, when
Böhring looks for his neighbor, or when Paul thinks of Anja, they experience an
encounter with their own unconscious. Jacques Lacan describes it this way:
"The unconscious is that discourse of the Other, where the subject
receives, in the inverted form which is appropriate to the promise, his own
forgotten message" (qtd. in Bowie 93).11 Paul echoes Lacan when
he describes his feelings for Anja, saying that during intercourse with her, it is
als schriebe sie etwas in ihn ein, einen fundamentalen Text, in dem geschrieben stand, wer er
war und wer er sein könnte, dessen Geheimschrift aber nur sie lesen konnte und
der ohne sie erlöschen musste.
(as if she were inscribing a fundamental text into him, which stated who he was and who he
could be but the writing of which only she could read and without her, it would
disappear.)
(LW 240)
In his commentary to Speech and Language in Psychoanalysis,
Wilden explains Lacan's interpretation of a newborn as an "absolute
subject" (Lacan, Speech 163). As the infant does not distinguish between
herself and the world, she discovers the object through its absence; for example the child
feels the absence of the mother's breast. The experience of this lack leads to the
primordial desire of being reunited with the mother and is the basis for the
desire for unity. When the small child sees her image in the mirror she
perceives a corporeal unity, which she herself is lacking at that developmental
stage. However, the child anticipates her own maturing to a corporeal unity by
identifying with this image. This means that the "subject identifies his
sentiment of Self in the image of the other."12 Lacan then concludes that
the mirror stage is the source of all later identifications. The acquisition of speech
introduces the child into the system of signifiers, the symbolic order. Access
to speech enables the child to find a subject position in relation to others
(as son or daughter of father and mother). The child learns to define herself
through difference, that is, in contrast to others: I am "son"
because I am not "daughter." However, as a negative definition is
never unambiguous, it always leaves gaps in meaning; for example, I am also
"daughter" because I am not "mother." Quite obviously, in
the novel, Paul identifies his idea of self through Anja. The ambiguity creates
the space for the "fundamental text" Paul mentions. In their sexual
union, Anja, the "Imaginary Lover"13
seems to promise to fill the gaps to give Paul his unity. It is evident that
Anja cannot fulfill this promise as no real lover can fulfill it; that is the
reason why these lovers must be unattainable. The real woman does not play any
part in this. Paul is drawn to Anja because she is the wife of another man and,
for that reason, unavailable. She is sensual, and in her dreamlike presentation
of herself she appears to him as somebody new and unknown. He is always
attracted to her when she is sleeping or sleepy, that is, when she is in a
sense absent. This absence allows him to project his desire onto her. He says
himself that what he is looking for and what he actually finds in the embrace
with Anja is "Selbst-vergessenheit" ("self-oblivion"; LW
241). He meets her only in a secret room, trying to create a private world outside the
reality of his daily life. When having to make a decision, he has no interest in a future
with her.
Anja, on the other hand is portrayed to be desperate when Paul rejects her. This
behavior is typical for the "Loving Woman," who is helpless, unable
to make her own decisions, and incapable of leading an independent life. Anja
aimlessly drifts through life until she marries Leonhard in order to find a
place for herself. However, due to the fact that Leonhard is an asexual being
and Anja is very sensual, he cannot become the object of her desire and
therefore cannot be the center of her universe. In accordance with
Wellershoff's usual character categories, Anja is unfit to be a mother because
she is a sexual being. When the situation arises, she becomes Paul's mistress
and concentrates all of her desires on him. Unlike Wellershoff's male
protagonist who is always dissatisfied with his specific lover, the
"Loving Woman" is portrayed to be absolutely devoted to her lover.
When she is with him, she is happy; when he is absent, she is not. The
"Loving Woman" exists only through her love. This "Loving
Woman" is of absolutely no interest to Paul, who thus follows Wellershoff's
other male protagonists. It seems that the male protagonists can be interested
only in "Imaginary Lovers." As soon as such an "Imaginary
Lover" shows interest, she changes into a helpless, dependent woman whom
the male protagonists despise and reject. The more the women beg for affection,
the more they are despised.14 Paul hides
behind conventions when he argues with himself that he would never leave an
intelligent and beautiful woman like Marlene for her. It is the conquest that
serves as the interesting challenge and that holds the promise. When he obtains
the woman, he immediately loses interest: reality cannot live up to the ideal.
Coming from Anja, Paul meets his colleagues by coincidence and is immediately
attracted to another woman, because he has the feeling "dass das Leben in
den Geheimfächern der Zukunft immer neue, andere Möglichkeiten fŸr ihn
bereithielt" ("that life continued to offer him new, different
possibilities in its secret compartments of the future"; LW 235).
With the character of Paul, as well as with Böhring or Elsheimer or others of his
male protagonists, Wellershoff draws an image of men who are marked by their
inability to brave life. It is surprising, however, that despite his obvious
sensitivity for social change and his observations regarding the results of the
changing role of women, the author never discusses this aspect. Deprived of his
traditional role as provider and keeper of the family, the man is holding on to
the patriarchal prerogative of conquering women while he is looking for his
ideal to give him back his sense of identity and unity. As no real existing
woman can fulfill this ideal, the man must look further.
Similar to Jacques Lacan, Julia Kristeva has studied the development of the child. Some
of her findings can offer an additional explanation for the motives of
Wellershoff's characters. Kristeva identifies an important semiotic experience
as she calls the undifferentiated continuum in which the small child perceives
herself, her surroundings, and her mother's body "chora" (Kristeva
36). This developmental stage is characterized by undifferentiated perceptions
that later are structured by drives and are associated with pleasant or
unpleasant memories. With the mirror-stage, the thetic stage also begins, which
leads to the positioning of subject and object as different within the symbolic
order; the child recognizes herself as defined unity, frees herself from the
mother and finds her own identity in the symbolic. Kristeva calls this process
"castration" (46). Even though she ultimately considers this
castration as liberating for the child, she admits that it is also very
painful. The subject can never completely separate from the chora, the
connection remains in the unconscious as a desire to re-merge with the maternal
body. The intensity of this desire is individually different and also depends
on other factors.
Applied to the text, it is possible to conclude that Wellershoff's male protagonists,
unconsciously, but very strongly, desire the way back to the mother's womb and
to their origin. They long for the place where they can find total acceptance,
total satisfaction, and total contentment. This is the state before birth.
However, it is also the state after death and, as a result, this desire must be
frightening to the protagonist due to its affinity to death. It is therefore
essential that the woman onto whom all these desires are projected is
unattainable. Only in this way can the male control his desire. In Die
Sirene, Elsheimer succeeds in silencing the voice of desire; in Zikadengeschrei,
the protagonist flees because he only has the choice between being petrified and bursting.
In Der Liebeswunsch, Paul tries to contain his desire by looking for
other opportunities. In the end, Anja kills herself, thus removing any danger
for Paul. Ironically, through her death, Anja regains her status as object of
desire. Paul can admit his frustration and declare Anja to be the possible
ideal match for him. In the beginning of the novel, while Paul is visiting the
building where Anja committed suicide, he somehow senses her presence, and he
discovers "etwas wallt in mir auf wie die Ankündigung von Glück"
("something is rising inside of me like the announcement of
happiness"; LW 25). Through her death, Anja will always remain the ideal
lover because she is unattainable.15
In short, one can conclude that the female character must die to remain desirable
and non-threatening. While this is certainly true for the protagonist Paul, the
success of the novel suggests that Anja's death is appealing to the reader. On
the one hand, Anja fascinates through her desire for love; yet, if her
uncompromising striving for the fulfillment of desires had led to a happy
ending, the novel would probably be considered among the implausible romance
novels or might stir up a controversy regarding morals. On the other hand,
Anja's death invites compassion without posing questions. By letting Anja
commit suicide, Wellershoff places himself in the tradition of Fontane's Effi
Briest. He allows the reader to empathize with Anja's desperation and the lonely
misery of her death without having to consider moral issues or questioning personal
values. He also stays within traditional realist values, which say that passion has to
be overcome and does not provide the grounds for marriage.16
Finally, reading this novel along with other fictional works of Wellershoff allows
placement of the story of rejected love in the context of desire and its
containment. With this aspect in mind, Wellershoff indeed did not break new
ground, but told yet another story about the search for new opportunities.
Again, he presents a female character who devotes her life to the man she loves
whereas the male character follows an unconscious desire he needs to contain by
abandoning her, which, in turn, ultimately allows him to place his desire in a
realm safely outside of reality. Actually, one might infer that the author,
true to his claim of staging alternative life options in literature, has again
attempted to free himself of the danger of losing himself in desire.
Notes
1 All translations into English are mine.
2 The term was used by Volker Hage. Likewise, Peter Mohr speaks about
Wellershoff's "literarisches Meisterwerk" ("literary masterpiece").
3 Werner Jung declares that Wellershoff "unter Beweis [stellt], daß
der psychologische Realismus seine Sache ist" ("proves that he knows
psychologically based realism"; 161).
4 Wellershoff addressed the connections between literature
and life throughout his career. In this context, I am referring to his essay
"Double, Alter Ego und Schatten-Ich. Schreiben und Lesen als mimetische
Kur."
5 An article of particular interest in this context is
Wellershoff's essay "Der Treibsand der Gefühle und die Freiheit, glücklich
zu sein."
6 For example, in the essay "Double, Alter Ego und
Schatten-Ich," Wellershoff himself discusses the importance of the mother
for the killing in Die Schönheit des Schimpansen.
7 LW will serve as abbreviation for Der Liebeswunsch.
8 Literatur des Begehrens is the subtitle of Wellershoff's
essay collection, Der verstörte Eros.
9 In this novella, an old friend is shown to court Brita in
order to demonstrate that she is attractive to men.
10 With Robert Bly, one could argue that Paul wants his wife
to give him back the "golden ball," his wholesomeness; a demand that
is in vain because the wife does not have it. Bly argues that until a man
accepts his "Wild Man" inside, he will try to find socialization
through other means, but in the end these efforts are futile (Bly 8).
11 Jacques Lacan discusses this in his
paper, "La psychanalyse et son enseignements."
12 This is Anthony Wilden's translator's note 27 in Lacan, Speech
and Language in Psychoanalysis (100).
13 My use of the term "imaginary" is not related to
Lacan's "Imaginary."
14 In Der Sieger nimmt alles, Jovanca, the first mistress of
Klaus Vogtmann, turns into a weak creature. His future wife, Elisabeth, is
portrayed as a "Loving Woman" from the beginning, and accordingly
Klaus does not show any personal or romantic interest in her.
15 Similarly, the siren regains her status. Despite the fact
that Elsheimer stages the "Drachentötung" ("slaying of the
dragon"; Sirene 209) to free himself, he immediately is aware of the void
inside of him. The siren had "alles an sich gezogen, alles mit fortgerissen in ihr
Dunkel, ihre Unerkennbarkeit" ("drawn everything to her and carried
all into her darkness, her imperceptibility"; Sirene 214).
16 In Love as Passion, Niklas Luhmann writes extensively about the
combination of freedom, happiness, social order, and marriage (Luhmann 129f)
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Katja Fullard, a native of Munich, received a Magister Artium degree in German Linguistics
from the University in Munich. Subsequently, she completed the Ph.D. in German Language
and Literature at the University of Florida. Since 1999, she has taught at the
University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN.
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